i read this very interesting post by kev.
for those who dont already know, kev is easy-going gay fellow who lives across the causeway. his sexual escapades and the usual longings that many of us experience (love, better life, sex... the list goes on) makes his blog an interesting read.
but enough about kev...

does a good strong relationship almost always secures your sex life? and even if it does do i have to feel guilty about wanting it?

sex as many of us will definitely attest to (especially me) is good for a realtionship. as kev said, it solves problems even.
one minute your squabbling over some stupid little matter and wham! the next your in bed having a mind blowing orgasm and when its all over, you can hardly remember what the hell it was you were fighting over. (but you sure as hell was glad it happened)

in a open relationship sex is inevitable. maybe it'll happen on the first date, maybe on the fiftieth, but it almost always will happen, especially if its going somewhere. even after marriage, you'll be fucking like rabbits anytime and anywhere, morning, noon and night. (mmmmmmmm)
so yea, a relationship will reach its sexual peak sooner or later and from then on, wooohooo the ride's always open and you my friend, you have the vip unlimited pass.
think about it, its true isnt it?

but do we have anything to be guilty about? i sure as hell dont think so! (and its not because i'm one horny little shithead) as kev said, the comfort of a partner is essential and hell, it might even make the whole thing better. but dont go putting yourself in a relationship just because you want a fuck toy. thats just low and despicable.

so yea, getting in a relationship kinda secures this little sex factor. but i guess it comes with time, especially in sickeningly closed-minded singapore. and if intentions are good, why the hell feel guilty right? i'm sure its as good for you as it will be for your partner (just dont be selfish people).

i cant wait to get my vip pass... lol.